When you are sorrowful look again in your heart,
and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.

~ Kahlil Gibran, from"The Prophet"

Monday, August 30, 2010

Once Upon a Time

Once upon a time there were two little girls named Sarah and Meg.
They met when they were about five years old, and instantly became best friends.
Meg lived around the corner from Sarah,
and they played at one another's houses all the time.
They had very active imaginations and could make believe they were almost anything in the world, including Victoria (the cat, not the queen) and rolls of toilet paper.
There were many sleep-overs, and Meg ALWAYS spent the night at Sarah's house because Sarah would never spend the night away from home,
even though Meg's house was just around the corner.
Perhaps she was afraid of dragons.
Perhaps there was just no place like home to her at the time.

The little girls were inseparable.


But, when the girls were only ten years old,
Meg's dad told her the family had to move to Geneva...
SWITZERLAND!
These girls, who were best friends, were very very sad.
How could they possibly live so far away from one another?
Many many tears were shed,
including lots from the mother of Sarah
who thought of Meg as one of her own.
This mother was very tolerant. Actually, she liked to be silly too.
What was the mother dressed as? I have no idea!
This was 1990 ~ much too long ago to remember.

Alas, Meg shouted for all the world to hear ~
DON'T WORRY!
WE WILL STAY FRIENDS FOR EVER AND EVER!


Meg stayed far, far away in Switzerland, coming back to the states for occasional visits, until it was time to go to college. Each time she came home, the little girls, who were getting bigger and bigger all the time, met one another and simply picked up where they left off.
Because that's just what friends can do.

Sarah finally decided she could spend the night away from home
and attended college in Wisconsin.
Meg decided to come back and go to school in Iowa.
After college, Meg moved to Chicago
and Sarah, who was no longer afraid of dragons at all,
continued to live in Milwaukee.
And still the girls stayed in touch.
Because that's just what friends can do.

Meg tried to donate blood last May for Erin's Memorial Drive,
but was turned away due to possible exposure to Mad Cow Disease
during her years in Europe.
She commented at the end of the post, and signed
Love, Meg - your permanent house guest for much of my childhood!
Her intentions and this comment made Sarah's mother very happy.


On Saturday, a beautiful and very grown up Meg
put on a gorgeous white dress
and met a handsome prince in a black tuxedo
who waited for her at the altar of a church in Chicago.
And who had to walk down the aisle first
and make sure this was an appropriate prince?
Why, her best friend Sarah, of course!


Now, the mother of Sarah, who still thinks of Meg as one of her own,
was so happy to attend this wonderful occasion.
She wept many tears
because Meg looked so beautiful
because Meg found her perfect prince
and because she was so filled with joy that these once-little girls
who parted ways at such a tender age
are still best friends now that they are 28 years old, and not so little!


Throughout the evening, the mother watched from afar,
soaking in the magic of this special friendship
that the miles never EVER snatched away.


There were not only tears shed, but oh so much laughter


and good food and lots of wine



and of course, there was DANCING!

And this is certainly not The End, but merely the beginning of the next chapter in the story of the lives of Meg and Sarah, who are still best friends.
And the happy mother of Sarah is watching ~ giving thanks.

5 comments:

  1. Mare what a beautiful fairy tale. I loved all the pictures but was disappointed that the one where they are climbing the walls was not included!
    YOU LOOKED FANTASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Lis

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  2. We just arrived in Hawaii and I ran to the computer right away as Sarah told me to ;) I love you and your family so much and I am spending the first minutes of my honeymoon sitting on our balcony crying my eyes out. Thank you so much for not only being there with me on Saturday but thank you for treating me like family for all of these years. I always felt like I was part of the family and what a special family it is. Nick was telling me on the flight how lucky I was to have such a wonderful friend like Sarah and I told him I really did know how lucky I am. Friends like Sarah do not come around every day and the opportunity to grow up around the corner from such a loving family is so very special. I hope that we can find some more time to catch up soon. I love you.
    Meg
    P.s - I'm not sure if I have ever seen the picture of when we dressed you up but I REMEMBER it!!!! So many years ago but memories that last forever.

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  3. This is a beautiful story - thank you for sharing it - and the photos - here with us. To Meg and her prince: Many blessings and years of wedded happiness to you!

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  4. So sweet, the story, the pictures and the REAL LIFE!! Loved it!

    xxoo

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  5. Dear Meg ~

    Hopefully there are no more tears and you're having a wonderful time in Hawaii. Thank you again for including us on that beautiful day. This mother is still very happy!

    xo

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